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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
		<link>http://confidentwriting.com/2008/01/how-to-write-a/#comment-1330</link>
		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 09:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeanne, I think you deserve the prize for this month&#039;s most creative comment!  I love the way you&#039;ve turned this round to look at the undesirable As that would follow if we didn&#039;t add these ingredients into the mix...

It&#039;s often a more convincing way to learn isn&#039;t it, to look at where we don&#039;t want to end up, and then adjust our path to take us to the Awesome place we want to be :-)

Joanna
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeanne, I think you deserve the prize for this month&#8217;s most creative comment!  I love the way you&#8217;ve turned this round to look at the undesirable As that would follow if we didn&#8217;t add these ingredients into the mix&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s often a more convincing way to learn isn&#8217;t it, to look at where we don&#8217;t want to end up, and then adjust our path to take us to the Awesome place we want to be <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 09:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rosa, thanks for the equation!

I might not be getting the time to write about writing with aloha just now... but it is often times in my mind, and I hope those attitudes, values and approaches will always infuse my writing... leading to a compelling attraction :-)

Joanna
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rosa, thanks for the equation!</p>
<p>I might not be getting the time to write about writing with aloha just now&#8230; but it is often times in my mind, and I hope those attitudes, values and approaches will always infuse my writing&#8230; leading to a compelling attraction <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 09:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joanna,

These five &quot;A&#039;s&quot; are all critical to effective blogging.  It would be tough to choose just one, because you really can&#039;t have just one without the others to support, strengthen, temper, and/or round it out.

Though I tend to think Authority is an indispensable &quot;A&quot; which &quot;qualifies&quot; a blogger by giving that blogger credibility within his or her niche, Authority simply isn&#039;t enough.

Authority without Approachability = Arrogance (another &quot;A&quot; by the way, but not one we want to have on our list of writing resources).

Authority without Attraction = Alienation (yes, another negative and undesirable &quot;A.&quot;)

Authority without Authenticity breeds Antipathy.  (There seem to be quite a number of &quot;A&#039;s&quot; we&#039;d do well to avoid.)

And, finally, Authority without Audience interActivity = Aloofness.  (Apparently &quot;A&quot; can go either way for us.)

So, as important as Authority is, it simply can&#039;t stand alone.  Otherwise it invites all these other &quot;A&#039;s&quot; that we definitely don&#039;t want to have hanging around!

Loved this post, Joanna!
Jeanne


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joanna,</p>
<p>These five &#8220;A&#8217;s&#8221; are all critical to effective blogging.  It would be tough to choose just one, because you really can&#8217;t have just one without the others to support, strengthen, temper, and/or round it out.</p>
<p>Though I tend to think Authority is an indispensable &#8220;A&#8221; which &#8220;qualifies&#8221; a blogger by giving that blogger credibility within his or her niche, Authority simply isn&#8217;t enough.</p>
<p>Authority without Approachability = Arrogance (another &#8220;A&#8221; by the way, but not one we want to have on our list of writing resources).</p>
<p>Authority without Attraction = Alienation (yes, another negative and undesirable &#8220;A.&#8221;)</p>
<p>Authority without Authenticity breeds Antipathy.  (There seem to be quite a number of &#8220;A&#8217;s&#8221; we&#8217;d do well to avoid.)</p>
<p>And, finally, Authority without Audience interActivity = Aloofness.  (Apparently &#8220;A&#8221; can go either way for us.)</p>
<p>So, as important as Authority is, it simply can&#8217;t stand alone.  Otherwise it invites all these other &#8220;A&#8217;s&#8221; that we definitely don&#8217;t want to have hanging around!</p>
<p>Loved this post, Joanna!<br />
Jeanne</p>
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		<title>By: Rosa Say</title>
		<link>http://confidentwriting.com/2008/01/how-to-write-a/#comment-1327</link>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 21:20:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joanna, I think you got the Aloha - it is in the Authenticity + Approachability + Acceptance and it = an incredibly strong, compelling Attraction :)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joanna, I think you got the Aloha &#8211; it is in the Authenticity + Approachability + Acceptance and it = an incredibly strong, compelling Attraction <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
		<link>http://confidentwriting.com/2008/01/how-to-write-a/#comment-1326</link>
		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad, thanks for the feedback, I&#039;m glad you enjoyed (and echoed!) my alliteration.  Once a word nerd and all that...

It&#039;s a very interesting point you make on approachability.  Very similar to a phone conversation I was having with another blogger this morning - we also felt that it&#039;s wasn&#039;t just about conversational style, because lots of people do that and don&#039;t follow up with the *practice* of being conversational and approachable.

So I think you&#039;re right, that is something we can only gauge over time, by observation, by listening, by seeing how people respond in practice - rather than how (or what) they write in the post.

Joanna


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad, thanks for the feedback, I&#8217;m glad you enjoyed (and echoed!) my alliteration.  Once a word nerd and all that&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a very interesting point you make on approachability.  Very similar to a phone conversation I was having with another blogger this morning &#8211; we also felt that it&#8217;s wasn&#8217;t just about conversational style, because lots of people do that and don&#8217;t follow up with the *practice* of being conversational and approachable.</p>
<p>So I think you&#8217;re right, that is something we can only gauge over time, by observation, by listening, by seeing how people respond in practice &#8211; rather than how (or what) they write in the post.</p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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		<title>By: Brad Shorr</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Shorr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 14:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Joanna, thank you for this absolutely awesome, alliterative advice. I really tried to think of another &quot;A&quot; quality that pertains, but came up empty. As for what makes a blogger approachable, good question. Posts don&#039;t give me many clues. For me it&#039;s all in the comments. Bloggers who respond thoughtfully to reader comments are often eager to engage on a deeper level. In my experience, approachability is a function of a blogger&#039;s enthusiasm for conversation. Writing style doesn&#039;t enter into it. I know bloggers with a very &quot;in your face&quot; style who are wide open, and bloggers who write quite graciously and yet have little interest in engaging readers much if it all.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joanna, thank you for this absolutely awesome, alliterative advice. I really tried to think of another &#8220;A&#8221; quality that pertains, but came up empty. As for what makes a blogger approachable, good question. Posts don&#8217;t give me many clues. For me it&#8217;s all in the comments. Bloggers who respond thoughtfully to reader comments are often eager to engage on a deeper level. In my experience, approachability is a function of a blogger&#8217;s enthusiasm for conversation. Writing style doesn&#8217;t enter into it. I know bloggers with a very &#8220;in your face&#8221; style who are wide open, and bloggers who write quite graciously and yet have little interest in engaging readers much if it all.</p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 12:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rosa, she&#039;s a woman who knows how to get to the point all right!

There was a lot to digest here (too much maybe...)

I guess I look at it in two ways - one is, which of these do we need to work on or develop right now?  the other, an overview of what we&#039;re trying to do, which I&#039;d also construct as some kind of formula, like

Authenticity + Authority + Approachability = Audience = (over time) Authority (squared)

(Maths not my strong point!)

Of course I realised when I was writing this that the missing &quot;A&quot; was Aloha, I just couldn&#039;t think of a way to work it in.  Maybe it&#039;s a post we could dream up together some time :-)

Joanna
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rosa, she&#8217;s a woman who knows how to get to the point all right!</p>
<p>There was a lot to digest here (too much maybe&#8230;)</p>
<p>I guess I look at it in two ways &#8211; one is, which of these do we need to work on or develop right now?  the other, an overview of what we&#8217;re trying to do, which I&#8217;d also construct as some kind of formula, like</p>
<p>Authenticity + Authority + Approachability = Audience = (over time) Authority (squared)</p>
<p>(Maths not my strong point!)</p>
<p>Of course I realised when I was writing this that the missing &#8220;A&#8221; was Aloha, I just couldn&#8217;t think of a way to work it in.  Maybe it&#8217;s a post we could dream up together some time <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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		<title>By: Rosa Say</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jan 2008 01:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love that rant by Lorelle Joanna, thank you for sharing it. There is a lot to digest in your post, and I think I focused on Lorelle&#039;s quotation because of some other *voices* talking to me. They are voices which speak of streamlining and choosing carefully instead of trying to be all things for all people... kind of wraps up for me as

Authenticity + Approachability = Authority better Appreciated and thus better Accepted by your Audience, who very likely were Attracted by your Authenticity + Approachability in the first place.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love that rant by Lorelle Joanna, thank you for sharing it. There is a lot to digest in your post, and I think I focused on Lorelle&#8217;s quotation because of some other *voices* talking to me. They are voices which speak of streamlining and choosing carefully instead of trying to be all things for all people&#8230; kind of wraps up for me as</p>
<p>Authenticity + Approachability = Authority better Appreciated and thus better Accepted by your Audience, who very likely were Attracted by your Authenticity + Approachability in the first place.</p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 23:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert, thanks for such a thoughtful set of responses.  It makes me feel good about my coaching questions :-)

I like your take on authenticity. As I said to Catherine, it&#039;s a hard one to put your finger on, but I like that way of putting it

&quot;how comfortable I am with the person&#039;s writing. If I feel &quot;at home&quot;, then that&#039;s authenticity for me. I can consider them friends, even if we&#039;ve never met.&quot;

Which doesn&#039;t mean the other person needs to be &#039;like&#039; us - more that we get some sense that they&#039;re being themselves, which puts us at ease too...

Your comments on approachability are interesting too.  I know what you mean about tying things up in a bow, I think all of us struggle with this in one way or another (expect perhaps for the queen of blogging relationships...) and the story format you use so well probably lends itself to that too.  On the other hand I&#039;d say that you write stories that have universal appeal, that make a connection with readers beyond the specifics of the story, which is what opens up the room for conversation.

I&#039;ve always enjoyed the chat in the comment boxes at MZM (it was one of the things that helped me realise it was just that - a different kind of zone where you could take a load off.. and all that) and been impressed by the audience participation you have going on there (supported not least through WILF)...

So it will be fun to see where more engagement takes us - is there a zone beyond the zone?  I guess so, and if there is, well, I&#039;ll be coming too :-)

Joanna
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert, thanks for such a thoughtful set of responses.  It makes me feel good about my coaching questions <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I like your take on authenticity. As I said to Catherine, it&#8217;s a hard one to put your finger on, but I like that way of putting it</p>
<p>&#8220;how comfortable I am with the person&#8217;s writing. If I feel &#8220;at home&#8221;, then that&#8217;s authenticity for me. I can consider them friends, even if we&#8217;ve never met.&#8221;</p>
<p>Which doesn&#8217;t mean the other person needs to be &#8216;like&#8217; us &#8211; more that we get some sense that they&#8217;re being themselves, which puts us at ease too&#8230;</p>
<p>Your comments on approachability are interesting too.  I know what you mean about tying things up in a bow, I think all of us struggle with this in one way or another (expect perhaps for the queen of blogging relationships&#8230;) and the story format you use so well probably lends itself to that too.  On the other hand I&#8217;d say that you write stories that have universal appeal, that make a connection with readers beyond the specifics of the story, which is what opens up the room for conversation.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve always enjoyed the chat in the comment boxes at MZM (it was one of the things that helped me realise it was just that &#8211; a different kind of zone where you could take a load off.. and all that) and been impressed by the audience participation you have going on there (supported not least through WILF)&#8230;</p>
<p>So it will be fun to see where more engagement takes us &#8211; is there a zone beyond the zone?  I guess so, and if there is, well, I&#8217;ll be coming too <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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		<title>By: Joanna Young</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joanna Young</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jan 2008 23:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Catherine

Authenticity is a fascinating topic - I spend a whole month exploring it last autumn and still didn&#039;t get to the bottom of it!

It&#039;s interesting how we notice that spark of creativity and originality in others - and I guess that is a part of what we mean by authentic, but for me it can equally well be writing in a plain, simple yet powerful way... telling it like it is, from your own unique perspective.  Which I think is how you try and write too :-)

Joanna


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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Catherine</p>
<p>Authenticity is a fascinating topic &#8211; I spend a whole month exploring it last autumn and still didn&#8217;t get to the bottom of it!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s interesting how we notice that spark of creativity and originality in others &#8211; and I guess that is a part of what we mean by authentic, but for me it can equally well be writing in a plain, simple yet powerful way&#8230; telling it like it is, from your own unique perspective.  Which I think is how you try and write too <img src='http://confidentwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Joanna</p>
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